My cousin, Emily, is getting married today! Her fiance, Kevin, is a wonderful guy, and they are an adorable couple. I am SO excited for them to begin this journey together! One of the biggest blessings in my life is my marriage to Brad. There is nothing like coming home to my best friend every day, and I am happy that Emily will know that feeling!
In honor of Emily and Kevin's union, I'm posting my Top 10 Tips for a Happy Marriage (in no particular order).
1. You weren't raised in the same household, so you may be accustomed to different traditions. If you can't agree on whose traditions to follow, create your own!
2. Men can't read minds; tell them what you want them to know (or at least write them a note).
3. Whether a woman is angry, sad, or happy, a hug is ALWAYS appropriate.
4. When your spouse cooks, clean up the kitchen after the meal.
5. Don't think of chores in terms of whether it is a "man's chore" or a "woman's chore". If you see something that needs attention, take care of it. Your spouse will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
6. Always show respect to your spouse, ESPECIALLY when other people are around.
7. Make plans each week to spend time together doing something you both enjoy.
8. Never lie to your spouse, even if you think protecting them from the truth is a good idea.
9. Forgive your spouse (and yourself!), no matter what. It won't be easy, but it's so much better than letting unforgiveness put a wedge between you.
10. Laugh together. Laughter is good medicine, and it heals all kinds of hurts.
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